Well, so much for 30 days of gratitude, or any December posts for that matter. Sadly, all those gratitude posts are still stowed away in my draft folder. Perhaps I'll get around to finishing, polishing, and sharing them soon. In the meantime, let me apologize for my two month absence. Life's been busy, what can I say? I haven't had a lot of free time, and I haven't been in much of a blogging mood. Even the few times I've attempted it, I've had an immediate writer's block. Thankfully, said block appears to have passed, so here I am!
It's hard to believe we're now living in 2013. Time flies, especially when you're an adult. The Andersens are well, and looking forward to another productive year. After a peaceful Christmas at home with Neil's mom visiting, the kids and I made a quick drive to Utah (on the 1st) to see my family. We came home the 6th, and the following morning life was back in full swing. Christmas break felt more like two days than two weeks, which makes me a little sad. But I'd be lying if I said I wasn't happy to see the kids go back to school. Breaks from one's children are healthy for relationships, and this mama most definitely needs hers. :)
In honor of the new year, we focused our family home evening this week on goals and resolutions. Cliche? Absolutely! But I really think the kids caught on to the concepts discussed. I read the kids a story about a little boy who had resolved to keep his room clean but after only four days was failing miserably. When he went to his mom, unsure of how to get back on track and stay there, she suggested that rather than be overwhelmed by the job as a whole, to break it down into steps. We talked about how sometimes our responsibilities seem like too much to bear, but when we take a step back and analyze the breakdown of how to get from point A to point B, it becomes much more plausible. At the end of our lesson we took a few minutes to jot down some of our individual goals for 2013. We then shared those goals and resolved to not only maintain/achieve them, but to help encourage one another along their journey as well.
Chloe's goal sheet doesn't require much explanation. It's clear she drew an illustration to accompany each goal (#3 is my favorite). :) Ryan's piece on the other hand... well, let me explain. To start off, I must applaud him for writing out his goals all by himself. I spelled the words for him, but he wrote every dot of ink you see below. Then he drew a picture of himself with his remote control car. He's apparently putting it away, thus fulfilling one of his goals to clean his room. Oh, and the little blob off to the right side? That's his baby, "Elisabeth." ??? He and Chloe are both quite enthralled with the name.
Here are Neil's and my goals. Doable, right?
It was fun to share our goals and talk about our plans of execution. And ever since Monday, both the kids have seemed motivated. Chloe in particular, has made her bed every morning first thing, and today, invited me out of her bedroom when I offered to help. She's really taking this seriously! :)
I stumbled upon this quote last week and LOVED it. President Howard W. Hunter, though only our prophet for a short time, has always been one of my favorites. I had a special experience involving him less than 24 hours before his death, and have always felt a unique connection to him as a result. It's hard to explain, but he's very special to me, so naturally whenever I hear mention of his name, my ears perk up. I love these sweet and gentle words of advice, and how timely to share them with the new year upon us.
“This year, mend a quarrel. Seek out a forgotten friend. Dismiss suspicion and replace it with trust. Write a letter. Give a soft answer. Encourage youth. Manifest your loyalty in word and deed. Keep a promise. Forgo a grudge. Forgive an enemy. Apologize. Try to understand. Examine your demands on others. Think first of someone else. Be kind. Be gentle. Laugh a little more. Express your gratitude. Welcome a stranger. Gladden the heart of a child. Take pleasure in the beauty and wonder of the earth. Speak your love and then speak it again.”
Happy New Year, everyone!
